15 Interesting Things Couples Should Know About Showering Together.
Even if you enjoy being in a relationship, there are moments when you prefer to have some alone time, such as during a shower. Showering solo is like a mini escape, offering a moment of solitude where you can sing in the shower or simply relish some quiet serenity.
However, while showering alone is wonderful, sharing a shower with your partner can be an extraordinary experience. It can transform into a steamy, frothy, and enjoyable adventure. Although it may not be a widely quoted saying, some suggest that couples who shower together stay together.
Showering together, like many activities you engage in as a couple, has its advantages and some aspects that might not be as appealing. You might be thinking that it's just a shower and not that significant, but it can indeed be a memorable and exciting addition to your routine.
Here are some intriguing insights you should be aware of when it comes to showering together as a couple.
1. It improves intimacy.
Intimacy isn't solely enhanced by sexual experiences. Everyday activities like sharing a shower can also have a positive impact on intimacy.
Unlike sex, showering together allows you to take the time to appreciate each other's bodies while engaging in conversations simultaneously.
The combination of physical contact and emotional connection cultivated in these moments is incredibly intimate and distinct from any other connection you might share with someone. There's a unique quality to these intimate moments that sets them apart.
2. Makes you comfortable with each other.
I don't intend to enter the discussion, but there's a survey indicating that one-quarter of the surveyed men prefer to have the lights off during sex.
You might feel inclined to conceal certain insecurities about your body in the dark, but who could appreciate you more than your partner? Your partner is the best person to witness you precisely as you are, in all your splendor.
As you share a shower together, both you and your partner will gradually become more at ease with each other and genuinely appreciate your bodies, without any discomfort or avoidance of gaze.
3. You notice new things about each other’s bodies.
Once you become at ease with each other's bodies, you begin to genuinely observe the subtle details that might have eluded your notice before. Your partner might discover the dimple on your lower back and find it endearing.
You may even spot the love mark you left on your partner during the previous night's encounter.
4. It can be a new fun activity for you.
When you've spent a significant amount of time with your partner, you may find that you occasionally run out of ideas for enjoyable activities together.
Here's a suggestion: Create a relaxing atmosphere in the bathroom, perhaps by lighting a candle if you prefer, playing some calming music, and joining your partner in the shower.
Take it slowly; there’s no rush; remember, this is supposed to be fun. Take turns to undress each other. Laugh and love your way through it.
5. It can serve as foreplay.
Picture creating an atmosphere as previously described. It requires minimal effort to ignite the desire for some foreplay with your partner.
After a tiring day, your mind may often gravitate towards your bed rather than intimate moments with your partner. However, indulging in a soothing, romantic shower together can swiftly shift your focus and rekindle that desire.
6. It builds trust between you.
Trust plays a pivotal role in the vitality of every relationship, and any chance to enhance trust between you and your partner should be embraced.
Showering together provides additional opportunities to engage in conversation, share laughter, play, express love, and enjoy lighthearted moments. These are the instances that contribute to the development of trust.
It's the ordinary, everyday moments like these, as you go about your daily lives, often unaware that your touch, scent, expressions, and emotions hold significance in fostering trust between you and your partner, and vice versa.
7. It’s a great way to start your day.
Starting your day with a morning shower together provides an ideal opportunity to discuss your daily plans.
As a couple, the morning rush may limit your time for meaningful conversation before heading out. Showering together allows you to accomplish two tasks at once: cleansing yourselves and connecting with each other. It sets a positive tone for the day ahead.
As an added bonus, you carry with you throughout the day a mental image of your partner by your side, which brings a smile to your face and adds an extra layer of anticipation for when you reunite at home. Relationship goals!
8. You can have amazing conversations.
Have you ever noticed that some of the most thrilling ideas often strike you when you're in the shower? It's a great opportunity to open up and share some of those thoughts with your partner.
The soothing flow of water can work wonders in helping you gain clarity on various matters. It's entirely possible that you and your partner might even brainstorm a million-dollar concept right there in the shower.
9. It can serve as a stress reliever.
Every passing minute can bring a million concerns, leaving us weighed down by thoughts of work, family, social commitments, global conflicts, and natural disasters.
Do you want to know what can provide solace? A shower with the person you cherish most in the world. A shower on its own has been shown to effectively ease tense muscles, enhance blood circulation, and alleviate anxiety.
Now, combine that with the presence of your beloved partner, and you have the perfect recipe for stress relief.
10. You can slip and fall.
According to statistics, each year, 235,000 individuals experience accidents in the bathroom, with over a third of these incidents occurring in the shower. When two people share a shower, it likely doubles the risk of injury.
The shower environment is often slippery, and engaging in playful activities with your partner in such a wet setting may seem like a deliberate invitation to danger. It's important to keep this in mind whenever you find yourselves in the shower.
11. Shower sex is tricky.
Movies have made us reflect Making out in the shower is sexy, exciting, and unplanned. It is all of that, but completing it is difficult. To prevent risky slides, you must find the ideal position and hold on tightly.
Additionally, bear in mind that lubrication does not include water, soap, or shampoo. These can irritate the vagina when used as lubricant for simple penetration. It's not what you want.
12. You might have to shower again, by yourself.
One drawback of showering together with your partner is the possibility that certain areas may not receive thorough cleaning, prompting you to take a solo shower afterward.
Moreover, the time typically allocated for washing your hair may be abbreviated as your partner's playful activities, such as frolicking with soap suds on your body, divert your attention.
13. The water stream may not be enough for two.
I can envision this scenario unfolding. One partner initiates the shower, and the other may be patiently waiting for their turn under the water. Alternatively, it could be the reverse situation, with one partner relishing the warm shower while the other stands by, feeling the chill.
The solution to this predicament lies in using dual shower heads, yet many individuals tend to overlook this logistical aspect of sharing a shower.
14. Golden showers may not be your thing.
Have you ever come across the term "golden showers"?
A golden shower refers to a situation where someone urinates on another person while in the shower. Personally, I'd prefer to skip that experience, but if it's something you and your partner are open to, it's essential to have a conversation about it before showering together.
It would be quite uncomfortable if your partner were to urinate on you in the shower when you dislike it. Open communication about your preferences can lead to a more enjoyable and anticipated experience during your future showers together.
15. You might prefer a different water temperature.
Similar to the perpetual debates over room temperatures, there might be a disparity in water temperature preferences between partners.
It's important to come to a consensus on this matter. What compromises can be reached? The goal is to avoid one partner feeling uncomfortably cold and the other being subjected to scalding water.
Final words on showering together.
So there you have it. While showering is a regular healthy activity, showering with your partner gives you more to look forward to.
If you like to hurry through your solo shower, showering together allows you to slow down and enjoy your partner washing your back, water running down your body, some good conversations, and maybe even sexual activity.
Do not be pressured to plan showers with your partner like those you see in the movies. It is cold on those shower walls, and you don’t want your partner to lift you against the wall in the name of shower sex.
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