How To Make A Guy Regret Ghosting You.

Many women can relate to the following scenarios:

You meet a guy, and a deep connection seems to form between you both. You go on multiple dates, and everything appears to be going wonderfully in the budding relationship. 

However, out of the blue, he starts to text and call less frequently. When you attempt to capture his attention, he acts as if he's too occupied for you. Slowly, you both drift apart to the extent that he never initiates contact, leaving you feeling like you're pleading for his attention.

Another way in which a guy can 'ghost' a girl is when she openly expresses her interest in him, yet he behaves as if she doesn't exist. Despite her attempts to convey her feelings and initiate contact, the guy feigns ignorance of the situation, refusing to acknowledge or discuss it.

In either scenario, 'ghosting' signifies a deliberate act of a guy ignoring you, often because he believes he holds the upper hand in the relationship. But is it possible to make a guy regret ghosting you? Absolutely.

Here are six strategies you can use to make a guy regret ghosting you. 

1. Understand That It’s Not Always About You.

Whenever a guy 'ghosts' a girl, the initial reaction often involves self-doubt, with questions like, "What did I do wrong?" This underlying belief that you may have made a mistake can lead you to seek ways to win him back and rectify the situation. 

When you feel responsible, it can intensify a sense of desperation because you may believe you have something to prove.

Yet, in most cases, guys don't 'ghost' girls due to a specific action or mistake made by the girl. They often do it because they weren't prepared for a committed relationship in the first place.

Here's the crucial point: A high-quality man who genuinely desires a relationship with you will not 'ghost' you over something you did wrong. Instead, he will engage in open communication. 

This is what emotionally mature individuals do; they discuss any issues they encounter. If you're resistant to change, they might then consider parting ways.

However, when someone 'ghosts' you, it typically indicates that they weren't ready for a long-term commitment or were not mature enough to address the issues they had with you.

2. Don’t Make It A Big Deal. 

Experiencing being 'ghosted' by someone you care about can be deeply distressing. It's only natural to want to express to him how hurtful and immature his actions were.

Nevertheless, if this is a guy who left you because he simply didn't care, allowing your frustration to show will only enhance his sense of triumph. If you hope to make him regret his actions, you should conduct yourself as though it was of no great consequence.

In other words, resist the urge to turn to social media and start posting videos that generalize about men or share breakup songs. Instead, focus on moving forward with your life and conveying that your life is better without him.

Rather than creating content about how some men can be untrustworthy, share images of you enjoying meals with your family and friends. Display moments of you at the beach, in the movies, or having a great time with friends.

By doing so, you deny him the satisfaction of believing he left you. You're living a fulfilling life, and it's his loss that he can no longer be a part of it. The more joy you experience, the more he'll come to realize that it's him who needs you in his life, not the other way around.

3. Show Your Best.

Life doesn't come to a halt just because you've faced rejection from someone you believed would appreciate you. Remaining in the shadow of sorrow won't bring improvement. Life continues to unfold, and now is the moment to embrace it fully. 

Enhance your appearance, cultivate your skills and talents, explore new courses of learning, connect with fresh faces, embark on adventures, and evolve into a better version of yourself.

Becoming a better person than you were before serves as the most profound form of retribution.

4. Highlight Fun Moments With Social Media.

One drawback of social media is its tendency to showcase only the highlights of people's lives, which often leads us to compare these highlight reels with the unglamorous aspects of our own existence. However, it can also serve as a powerful tool to make a guy regret 'ghosting' you.

Here's how:

After a guy has 'ghosted' you, he will likely become more interested in your social media updates. Why? He's curious. He wants to gauge how you're faring. Is your happiness independent of his presence? Has someone else entered your life?

A common mistake many individuals make is openly expressing their intention to reclaim their lives and focus on self-love. While these declarations may sound positive, they can sometimes inadvertently portray you as pitiable and desperate.

What works even more effectively is simply posting pictures of yourself enjoying life. Capture moments like a Saturday dinner with your family or gatherings with friends where you're genuinely having fun, and share these pictures and short videos.

However, ensure that this isn't primarily about him; you're merely savoring life. Simultaneously, you're subtly showing that you're not defined by his actions, which can serve as a form of retribution for what he put you through.

5. Get Over Him.

Letting go of a guy, especially when you have strong feelings for him, can be quite challenging. However, it's essential to prioritize your mental well-being, as no man is worth sacrificing your happiness. Redirect your focus towards self-care and personal growth.

Although it might take time, you'll eventually come to the realization that he may not have been as amazing as you initially thought. The moment you make the decision to move on from this person is when you'll begin to notice the presence of numerous enjoyable individuals in your life—men who are eager to spend time with you. 

Remember, you are unique, and anyone who truly deserves you should treat you with the respect and appreciation you deserve. 

6. Make Him See What He’s Missing.

As the old adage goes, "you never know what you have until you lose it." Perhaps that's why the ancient German philosopher wrote in his Counsels and Maxims, "We should sometimes make an effort to view our possessions as they would appear if we had lost them."

It's possible that giving him excessive attention didn't yield the desired results, which may have led to him taking you for granted. Now, it's time to help him realize the mistake of 'ghosting' you.

Take a step back and redirect your focus towards someone else, perhaps a close friend or an individual you find particularly appealing. Invest more of your time with this person, go out, and have a great time together.

Engage in activities you typically did with your ex, and if you happen to cross paths with him, even better. Let him witness you having a great time without his presence. 

Make it clear that you're thriving and enjoying life without him. This will likely spark feelings of jealousy and a desire on his part to win you back.

Conclusion. 

“The best revenge is, of course, a good life. Enjoy yourself, be happy, and be successful. It’ll drive them crazy–or you can imagine it does. You’ll feel so good you won’t care.”

The key point here is that you shouldn't expend your mental energy on someone who has 'ghosted' you. Instead, direct your attention toward personal growth and connecting with more compatible individuals.

There's a saying, "20 children cannot play for 20 years," meaning that people will come and go in your life. Each person has their unique role to play on your life's journey. Not everyone who joins you on your path is destined to remain until the end; some are there to impart valuable lessons.