5 Tricks That Make Men Insanely Attractive.

Let's face it, a significant portion of our social interactions revolves around making an impression, especially when it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

Despite the fact that we've been engaged in the art of seduction throughout our lives, many people remain unaware of this fundamental yet crucial truth. 

In the words of Robert Greene, as expressed in his book, "The Art of Seduction," he stated: "Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game. All that is required is that you look at the world."

Take a moment to observe the world around you.

A common pitfall is that many men fail to comprehend how women think because they attempt to interpret them through the lens of their own gender. This approach has resulted in some peculiar and off-putting seductive strategies.

By broadening your perspective beyond your own experiences, you'll come to realize that there are certain qualities in men that women find attractive, which men may not anticipate. Here, we'll delve into seven of these traits.

1. Wearing a perfume. 

Many men dedicate a considerable amount of time to crafting the perfect words that could sweep a woman off her feet. However, regardless of how impeccable your words may be, having an offensive odor can be the ultimate deal-breaker.

As the saying goes, it's not just the content of your words that matters; it's also how you present them.

When you approach a woman while exuding a pleasant fragrance, she's already enjoying your company even before you utter a word. This isn't merely an opinion; even scientific studies corroborate this fact.

According to scientific research, scents wield subtle influences over our moods. A delightful fragrance tends to uplift our spirits and create a more comfortable atmosphere, while an unpleasant odor, as expected, has the opposite effect.

Smelling appealing might not require a significant investment, but its impact on social interactions is far more significant than many people realize.

2. Smiling. 

Research indicates that the emotional expressions displayed on an individual's face wield a significant influence on how we gauge their attractiveness.

This concept is quite intuitive when you ponder it. For instance, consider a scenario where you encounter two equally attractive women seated at a table. 

One of them appears cheerful, sharing smiles and laughter with her friends, while the other wears a frown, perhaps engaged in a dispute with the waiter. In such a situation, which one would you perceive as more attractive?

Happy individuals tend to radiate a sense of contentment and approachability.

While many men might assume that projecting toughness enhances their appeal and aligns with alpha male stereotypes like James Bond, this approach is primarily effective in the realm of movies. 

In reality, people generally prefer the company of individuals who exude positivity and are capable of embracing humor without taking themselves too seriously all the time.

3. Verbal dexterity. 

Have you ever wondered why conversations can be challenging for most individuals? The stumbling block often arises from the tendency to strive for impressiveness rather than genuine engagement. It's vital to remember that attempting to impress someone is distinct from actually being impressive.

According to personality psychologist Jeremy Nicholson, what holds greater significance during flirtatious interactions is the speaker's level of certainty in their words. In essence, even if your dialogue is succinct, adopting a measured and self-assured pace can signal genuine confidence.

Some individuals possess the knack for making even the most mundane topics sound captivating, while others might recite the most poetic lines and still fail to leave an impression. 

When conversing with a woman, the more you fixate on the content of your words, the more you tend to become self-absorbed. Instead, redirect your focus towards your demeanor, as when your overall energy exudes a composed and masculine aura, the conversation naturally aligns.

Women tend to respond more favorably to a composed and masculine energy than they do to the most elaborate pick-up lines or verbal prowess.

 

4. The lost art of calling names.

Dale Carnegie's book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People," dates back to 1936, and some might deem certain ideas within the book as antiquated. However, it has garnered an astonishing 30 million copies in sales, ranking it among the best-selling books of all time. 

Carnegie's principles for influencing people were straightforward yet highly effective, which accounts for the book's enormous success. One of the pivotal concepts emphasized by Carnegie was the significance of using people's names. 

He articulated, "Names are the sweetest and most important sound in any language."

Despite its simplicity, this principle is often overlooked, particularly when meeting someone for the first time. Incorporating a person's name into conversation deliberately is a swift means of making them feel valued. It conveys a genuine interest and aligns with Carnegie's wisdom that "To be interesting, be interested."

5. The right posture. 

Nine years ago, the renowned American psychologist Amy Cuddy launched her influential TED talk titled "Your Body Language May Shape Who You Are." 

She initiated her talk by instructing the audience to alter their posture for a mere two minutes, conducting an experiment to swiftly illustrate that body language holds sway not only over how we are perceived by others but also over how it influences us personally. As she astutely stated:

"When people view brief, soundless clips of actual physician-patient interactions, their assessment of the physician's demeanor can predict whether or not that physician will face legal action."

Yet, this revelation extends even further. As Cuddy expounded, when we contemplate non-verbal communication, our thoughts gravitate toward how we judge others, how they assess us, and the resultant consequences. 

Regrettably, we often overlook the other dimension of this equation, which is the influence our body language has on ourselves.

People perceive us through our own eyes, and when we project an image of confidence and high value, every action and utterance becomes filtered through this lens. We frequently form initial assumptions about individuals, subsequently evaluating all their other qualities based on these preliminary assumptions. 

This tendency clarifies why two men can convey identical statements to a woman and garner disparate or even contradictory responses. The woman's reaction isn't primarily driven by the content of their words but rather by the person delivering them.